Absence

Hi friends! This morning I'm laying in bed and a thought pops into my head. Not a random thought though. I've actually need thinking about it quite a bit. You know how they say "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"? For those of you who don't understand this, it means that when someone is away from you, you grow to like them even more. Now, I don't get this shit. I mean, I feel like there's an expiration date or something that goes with this statement. Like sure, if said person is gone for like a month or two max, then the statement makes sense. But what about for like a year or more than that? Then the lines get all fuzzy. Like I feel like said person is going to forget about you. And what if the person that is gone changes? Or you change? Who says ya'll are still gonna like each other when said person comes back? I don't know man. It's a fishy statement to me. It's not like a guarantee, ya know? Not set in stone that its gonna happen like that. I'd like to know if it actually will happen like that. I like a guaranty, because the unknown is scary. It can change something in a matter of seconds no matter how you feel about it. And you may never get it back to how it was. So yeah, that was my little pondering moment that I'd figure I would share with you guys. Have a good day! And if you're on the east coast, stay warm and safe! The snow and wind is crazy! Bye loves!