I have learned over the past year or so that I have developed unrealistic visions of love or how guys should act. I'm a sucker for a romance novel or chick flick. Any sort of love story really. Because of that, I think that guys should show these grand gestures. I build up these scenarios in my head and end up getting let down. It's my own fault really. But I can't shy away from a good love story. It's who I am.