Life Lesson #1

Hey blogger babies. So over the past couple of weeks I have learned a very important thing. Losing a friend is one of the worst things one will ever experience. Trust me. Sure it sounds a little cliche and some might roll their eyes and think, "yeah, I know" but nobody will ever truly know what it feel like until it happens. 

One might describe the feeling as a dull ache. An ache in your chest that is more apparent at times and less apparent at others, but still there nonetheless. Passing that person in the hallway and them not giving you a second glance. At that very moment you realize the person that you can tell anything to - judgement free - is no longer there. The one person that you can go to with a personal problem or question and will console you, but still give you a straight answer. Someone who you can joke with at times, but be serious with at others is no longer that person anymore. 

I believe that everyone has a person - one male and one female. Whoever your people are, they get you. They get your quirks and your weirdness and all the little things that make you you. When you lose one of your people, it almost feels like you lost a little bit of yourself. 

Luckily, in my case, I'm slowly getting that person back. Things got a bit rough for those couple of weeks, but I feel like things are getting back to normal again. I really hope they do because I've really missed my friend. I would never wish the loss of a true friend on anyone. 

Well, that's it my dears. Keep that life lesson in mind! You don't want to experience that pain. Trust me. It sucks.