Hey my blogger babies! So today I was pondering the question, "Is it possible to defriendzone someone?" I mean, obviously I know that you can date one of your friends, but that isn't defriendzoning. Know what I mean? Friendzoning is when you previously shut the other person down. Like "I'm sorry, I don't like you like that" or whatever. I mean, I guess it's possible, but I feel like it would be difficult to do. The person you placed in the friendzone would have to still have feelings for you first of all. Second of all, you would have to come out and say that you have feelings for them without knowing if they still have feelings for you or not. I'm not saying that it can't be done, but I feel like it would be very nerve racking.
What got me pondering this question is the friend of mine that I am attracted to. I keep recalling this one time during Sophomore year that our friends were all hanging out and he kept trying to hold my hand and he would have my hand for like a second but then I would talk with my hands and whatnot. So I mean, I guess I friendzoned him? But now I'm attracted to him, but I don't know if he feels the same way, and I don't want to say anything until I know for sure because I don't want our friendship to be awkward and we have at least one class together every single day and it could all turn into one big mess. (I am fully aware that is like one big run on sentence, but this is actually how I talk so bare with me.)
Anyways, I am going to try to put my feelers out and see if anybody knows anything. I'm going to try talking to one of my best friends who's boyfriend is his best friend to see if she knows anything. But I am going to swear her to secrecy (obvi) cause I am not an amateur. Hopefully I will get somewhere with that and will not be left with more questions. Fingers crossed!
Much love,
Hayley
xox
ps. if this friend happens to be reading this and happens to know I'm talking about him, please just be straight forward whether you like me or not because Lord knows I won't be. That would be greatly appreciated.
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